Hi guys...

crushhugsandkisses:

So, I know I haven’t been very active and I apologize, I know I always blame it on being the only person on the blog but it’s that among other things in my life. I’m not going to make this a sob story but basically I’m struggling with a couple mental as well as physical health issues right now,…

just a reminder cause people have still been sending asks :$

Hi guys…

So, I know I haven’t been very active and I apologize, I know I always blame it on being the only person on the blog but it’s that among other things in my life. I’m not going to make this a sob story but basically I’m struggling with a couple mental as well as physical health issues right now, and having all these things to do is just really making me very anxious and stressed out. I love you all so much and I hope that I can get back to this as soon as I can.

If you really really need advice, send me asks off anon here

Lots of love, Kayla

Anonymous asked:

So I've liked this boy for about 4 years, ever since I first saw him. We dated twice, but it was more like a texting relationship and we didn't talk to each other when it happened. He knows I like him, but I think he has a girlfriend. I always talk to him and we tease each other all the time. I think about him all the time and I always wish that I'm with him whenever I'm not near him. I don't know what to do about this situation. Oh, and I'm pretty sure he liked me too, a little bit. Any tips?

Imagine Your Crush... Answer:

Just keep being yourself with him (and a little flirty if I might add ;] ) be open with him if he inquires about your feelings and just be casual and hopefully he’ll be like woah you’re great and boom babies

~Kayla c:

Anonymous asked:

It literally tore my heart into shreds and I had just gotten out of the habit of crying myself to sleep over their relationship... I haven't seen him since July, because of the summer holidays. I start school again soon, and I just realise I'm still totally in love with him. After he found out, he treated me the same, for which I'm so grateful, but I can't take rejection from him and no matter how I try I can't stop feeling this way about him... What do I do? I need to get over him!

Imagine Your Crush... Answer:

Honestly as much as it sucks there’s not really anything you can do, just kind of wait it out and keep your mind open to other things (maybe not guys right away) things like this take time, not effort. Kudos to him for treating you the same, and hopefully he’ll continue with that and make sure you do to so as to not create awkward situations and such.

~Kayla c:

Anonymous asked:

Is it weird to like a guy who is 2 years older than you and your brothers best friend:/

Imagine Your Crush... Answer:

Not at all :) depending on exactly what ages you both are it could be a tad weird but 2 years isn’t that big a gap! It mostly matters on 1. Maturity levels and 2. his feelings

~Kayla c:

Anonymous asked:

I've had feelings for this one guy since the moment I laid eyes on him; it's been almost a year now and a lot of things have happened in that time. He never realised my feelings for him, and I honestly don't know if he would return them; but we get along great on a friendly level. Anyway, a few months ago, despite the fact my bestfriend knew about my feelings for him, she began dating him... It broke my heart and when I finally got over it, she ended up spilling the beans to him about how I feel

Imagine Your Crush... Answer:

Oh no :( if she really was a best friend she wouldn’t have done that…maybe if you had told her you didn’t mind it would be a tad more excusable but it’s still a thing that you just don’t do to someone you care about. Chicks before dicks man. Ovaries before brovaries. Honestly just kinda shrug it off as something that will help you grow as a person and has shown you how easy it was for her to put herself before you and consider that that might happen in the future if you aren’t careful with choosing your friendships!

~Kayla c:

Anonymous asked:

I need help okay so I started talking to this one guy but I was pretty sure he didn't like me so I started talking to this other guy. And they ended up being best friends. But then the first guy said how much he liked me and how upset he was when I started liking his friend. But I do like him and me and his friend don't talk anymore. But his ex girlfriend is like perfect and I don't know what to do:/

Imagine Your Crush... Answer:

Who cares about his ex girlfriend, if she really was perfect she wouldn’t have ex in front of the world girlfriend ;) Since you guys don’t talk anymore just explain to this guy what happened and see how he is with it :)

~Kayla c:

Anonymous asked:

So I started started at a school in March and a month later I developed a crush on this guy. At first we were actually kind of friends and then after a while he kinda started acting mean. And then after that he was nice and he'd look over at me a lot and do odd things. I really really liked him a lot after that and I didn't know at all what to do. But then I found out that he'd had a girlfriend since I moved there. But he was still nicer and glanced a lot. I'm so confused help me :((

Imagine Your Crush... Answer:

I think that as much as it may suck you might have misread his feelings, and mistaken friendliness for flirtiness (it happens all the time don’t worry) stay friends with him and who knows where you’ll both be a bit further from now!

~Kayla c:

Anonymous asked:

Is it normal to have a crush on someone you don't even talk to?

Imagine Your Crush... Answer:

For sure :) since it’s more something of observation it would be more infatuation than a crush, but it’s still possible!

 ~Kayla c:

Anonymous asked:

I asked a pervious question before and I told my friends what you guys said but they are still pressuring me to ask him out. I want to be I am scared for his reaction. But he wants to but he is afraid of my reaction.. Idk what to do! I want to like no have to ask each other out and just kind of go into it with out thinking about it but my friends pressure me.

Imagine Your Crush... Answer:

Don’t let them, be firm, stand your ground, it’s your decision and not there’s, they can’t choose how you live your life so live for you and make you happy, not them.

~Kayla c:

Anonymous asked:

I met a guy on holiday, he was so lovely, basically everything about him is perfect. We spent loads of time together and then when I went home we just simply hugged. We exchanged numbers and I found out that he had some huge crush on me, I told him I liked back and we spent the whole night flirting. He asked me whether I'd consider a long distance relationship (5 hours drive away) I want to see him more often then once a year and I don't know what to do. P.S you're so perf! <3

Imagine Your Crush... Answer:

oh my goodness thank you :3 I think there’s no harm in trying, who knows what might happen :) tell him you don’t want anything too serious, but still keep in contact and try to see each other more often :)

~Kayla c:

Anonymous asked:

I ACCIDENTALY SENT A NUDE OF MYSELF WHILE I WAS HIGH AND HE RESPONDED THE NEXT MORNING SAYING "AT LEAST YOU'RE SHAVED I WOULD EAT YOU OUT" AND THEN ASKED ME OUT OH MY GOD AND IM FREAKING OUT BECAUSE WE'RE ON A DATE RIGHT NOW LIKE ILL HE EAT ME OUT

Imagine Your Crush... Answer:

OH MY GOSH WOW WELL HAVE A GOOD TIME I GUESS DONT BE SILLY WRAP HIS WILLY

~KAYLA :O

Anonymous asked:

I love her so much. Her laugh is keeps me going, her smile can cure the worst sickness, her eyes shine like diamonds. I know every inch of her. The birthmark on the small of her back, the scar on the top of her forehead. She's perfect in every way.

Imagine Your Crush... Answer:

you’re adorable :3c hang onto her love

~Kayla c:

Anonymous asked:

My Crush and I are both very shy but are very open to each other. But we are both scared to ask each other out. I have no idea what to do. We have both been rejected before.

Imagine Your Crush... Answer:

Well Id say the best relationships are the ones where you don’t have to ask each other out, just be friends that know about how they both feel and maybe cuddle and kiss and do all those kind of relationshippy things and not really label it, like not have someone have to ask “will you be my boyfriend/girlfriend?”
~Kayla c: